Wishing a prosperous new year to all my friends and readers. Forget the failures in 2009 and work towards success in this year. Make sure you get enough sleep to fuel your dreams while working.
I would like to thank all those who commented, criticized, liked, disliked my posts. I will try my best to improve and post more this year. That’s a promise I don’t want to break.
Till the next year…
Pain… is very painful. huh… Especially when someone close to you departs. You do everything possible to stop, but that person leaves you. Leaves you forever. That’s something you can’t do anything about. That’s what life is. It is very ruthless, ugly and yet beautiful. That’s supposed to be the greatest irony.
I have a friend whose name is Vijay. A cheerful, jolly person with a loud voice and thin body. Just like me. We met recently and I didn’t knew much about him. Today he started to open some pages of his life and I was surprised. He’s got five brothers including him and a sister. That’s a big family and he was the only person on whom the whole family depended until recently his brothers got jobs. After things got settled he married a year back.
What surprised me was that he had a twin brother. The had part surprised.. well shocked me. His name was Ajay. Both the brothers were exact copy. It was difficult to recognize them if they stood by side. Ajay married a couple of months earlier than Vijay. His wife gave birth to a baby boy. He was very happy and he planned his 1st birthday to be celebrated in a grand way. At this stage everything was going good. But they say… “When everything is going good, prepare for something really bad.”
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For the past three years I was in confusion. I was badly in need of someone who will guide me. I never wanted to attend the seminars and paid lectures for guidance. Because I attended some and thought they just recite what they write and that’s it. Most of the time they show you path in the stream you study. Nothing else.
For me it’s different. I always wanted to do something else and was not doing that thing. I got a degree in Civil Engineering but my interest was always towards Computers. I always wanted to pursue my dreams in that field. But the confusion was that I studied for so long in one field and just leaving that for what was then my hobby would be foolishness. Also getting a degree in Civil Engineering was difficult. I achieved it with some difficulty.
Three years I am into this field and did good wherever I worked. At least I was satisfied with my work. Never relaxed and always wanted to do better than earlier. By every job my pay scale also increased and tempted me to take this path. Lots of difficulties and I loved them. I don’t like easy jobs. I think they kill me.
There was one big issue though. I was unstable. Means my jobs last only six months. Though there were valid reasons in changing every job, they don’t count. Giving reasons for your failure is very easy. Result was five jobs in three years. I got great amount of experiencing doing every job. I learned a lot. A LOT…But I was not satisfied. I was ignoring my dreams. Dreams which were crazy and what everyone would laugh at.
The dilemma continued and I was still in search of Guru, a guide. I ended up reading lot of books to fill the voids of a guide. Always keeping myself inspired to move ahead. They helped me. While doing this I found my guide, The Alchemist – Paulo Coelho. Reading that book, I saw myself as that boy. It looked like I traveled instead of him.
Earlier, after loosing my job last month in unusual circumstances, I thought of learning new skills and took a break. I applied for all the ads and anything I found for first fifteen days. Then I stopped. Then came this book and I made my decision. I will pursue my dreams. Even if I fail I don’t have to blame anyone or give a reason. It was my decision. I am responsible for the consequences.
I have very rough road ahead now. It will take some time till I earn good from this and then another some to get success. Everything what I need is destined. I only need to work hard to reach my destiny. As I finish I recommend you to read this book. That may help you.
You have seen some aspects of dreams earlier in this series. Now the final part. There is no final part for dreaming. They are endless and there is nothing stopping dreams. But this is the fourth and final post in the series. This part of the dreaming is the most important one and brings a lot of positive changes.These are the dreams which we see for success. Not just for ours but for others or may be for country or may be for the whole world.
These dreamers are one of the most successful peoples around you. They not only see dreams but work on them and try to make them come to life. These dreams have an high impact on the person. They make sense or may be not but they make that person move forward towards the path of success. Once such dream comes which wakes them. But the dream still remains. That is because they work towards fulfilling their dreams.
Often one such dream brings along with him another. And then another. This chain continues and the person becomes successful. He makes success as his habit. Are you one of these? Ask yourself. Do you see dreams that help you to move forward? Inspire you? Then you are one of the persons who will surely succeed.The hiccups at the start are normal. When you try to make your dreams come to life you’ll always have troubles. They may be a hell lot of troubles.
But don’t forget or ignore the dreams you have started working on. Success is not easy thing. It has to come through the hard way. The tough way. So don’t let your dreams die. Ignore everyone who makes a fool of you for your dreams. One day they will realize who was and who is the fool. Remember dreams are not just the ones you see during your sleep, But dreams are those which doesn’t let you sleep.
Till you fullfil your dreams…
Who said dreams come only in night?? It is possible to have dreams during the daytime. Although naturally it’s during night and socially the right time for the dreams has been fixed to be the night time. Else you’ll get a label on your head as a day dreamer. To clear myself I am not a day dreamer. But I think I am going to be a day dreamer soon. I like to have dreams at night and I tell my dreams during the day time. Just being off topic, Have you read “Tell me your dreams” by Sydney Sheldon?? Nice book to read.
So these day dreamer are unique species which possess special powers to see dreams during the daytime. These day dreamers have dreams which most of the time fall in humor category. Yes they are just like the crazy dreams. I wonder how they are able to see dreams during daytime. I am unable to sleep during day and recently was in nights also. These day dreamers don’t sleep during the daytime.They see the dreams with open eyes.
At this point I see what amazing power they have. It is indeed difficult to see dreams with open eyes. I tried this so as to become a day dreamer. But I was unable to see the dreams. In the end I would like the day dreamers not to share their powers. Get a job or work somewhere and get engaged in something. You have an unique quality.
All of us dream. Those who dream in night, wake up in the day and they are vanished. But day dreamers are dangerous. They may act their dreams with open eyes to make it possible.
Sources: I would like to thank some of my friends, colleagues and people I see everyday to help me in writing this much about day dreaming. It was not at all possible without these day dreamers. 😉